iFrog said:Here is the real solution to your problem.
Go to Settings > Mail, Contacts, Calendars > iCloud/ or whatever email account you have (I used iCloud) > Turn on Contacts and Calendars (don't worry if it merges) > TADA. It should work (well, for must people anyways). Once you got it working, you can go back and de-toggle Contacts and Calendars.
Get your own iCloud accountOk.....so me and my husband share our icloud (so that our calendars etc merge) but if I switch on the contacts button it will merge my contacts with his and that's no good....help?????????? I have had this problem since the update came out and I am desperate to sort my messy contacts out