To whomever is following this tread or for someone else that has this happen to them
Yesterday I just started removing cydia stuff, in SBSettings turned on the mobile substrate for some of the things I removed (I had them off prior to removal) and phone went into reboot after a rescreen, I held power and home button to get it to stop and after a few minutes it came up to safe mode, I then turned off the ones I deleted in sbsettings mobile substrate, phone came back up and I created a new problem.
I fixed my new problem (which was: every time I clicked on notification in settings, it dropped me out of settings, never going into notifications) by turning back on in sbsettings mobile substrate customwidgeticons (I must have turned off by accident), then reinstalling some cydia stuff back, then decided to try to connect to my computer and it works again, now everything is working just about like new.
Now another other very minor problem:
When ever I update iTunes I am seeing hidden icons on 2nd screen (like setup, diagnostics, adsheet, page 7&8 of disabled screen jumps, and a few others)
Now if I reboot or rescreen they go away but my icons are out of order and I have to rearrange them only on that page.
Any idea's on this one please.