I have questions regarding getting custom ringtones to work on my new iPhone 4S. I have created them with mp3 files that I had, making 30 second sections into m4r's. Yesterday when I put them in iTunes under ringtones, only one of the four would show up on my phone. I found a site that was supposed to help me get all four to show up, but what it did was delete all my media off the phone. I have since put the music back on my phone, but when I drag the ringtones over to it, they are grey'd out and won't show up on the phone.
I am obviously not doing something right, and was wondering if someone could point me in the right direction. Thanks.